I like to think of myself as organized (despite what anyone else may tell you). I love lists and find joy in checking things off. Seriously though…checking things off a list has to be the most amazing feeling EVER……
Anyway…here are some of the things that have helped me to become the most efficient version of myself. I hope it helps!
1. Buy (or make) A Planner
Life is hectic in your twenties. You have school or work (or both) and even the most organized person can forget things. I have an adorable Thomas Paul planner from Target and I carry it with me everywhere. I write my school & work schedules, assignments, personal events and bills on there. I cross things off as they are completed and nothing gets missed. I open it every morning and that is how I plan my day. I even write down which friends I have to contact in order to remember.
2. Keep Up With A Budget
I swear, payday is an emotional roller coaster of a day. In the morning, you are checking your bank account and jumping for joy and at night all of your money is gone and you feel depressed. It’s truly mortifying, I know. This is why we must keep a budget. If you haven’t heard of mint.com, you need to go check it out. You can set a budget on there, manage your bank accounts and set financial goals. It’s the financial planner for those of us who can barely pass algebra.
3. Network, Network, Network!
For some, getting to know new people is exciting. For others, this simple exchange is daunting. Either way, you need to get yourself out there. Being a young adult allows you the opportunity to ask for advice from virtually anyone and get a yes 90% of the time. Older professionals remember being in your shoes and feel honored to be considered a mentor. You also never know when those connections will come in handy. It might be tomorrow, next year, or never…but it’s better to have them than to not.
4. Find Time To Be Alone
I swear i’m not trying to contradict myself….really. Socializing is important. You need friends and mentors. That doesn’t take away from the fact that you NEED alone time. In your twenties, you are being pulled in 80 directions at a time. Give yourself a whole day (or half a day) each week to be alone. Put your phone on silent and essentially enjoy time alone. Do whatever you want but be alone. I can’t stress how important this is and how much you miss it when you skip it. You need to focus on your own thoughts and feelings…this is the way to do it.
5. Travel!
You are young, energetic and often times committed to no one but yourself. See the world! Work hard all year, and visit one new place on your yearly vacation. Even if you are in a committed relationship (I am), travel together! If you have kids, take a shorter trip – BUT GO. If they’re old enough, take them along. No book will do the justice that seeing the world for yourself can. Give up some luxuries and look up discounts. It’s worth it. Go book a trip…NOW. (I’m working to better myself in this aspect)
6. Keep A Journal
Because we’re 12 and want to talk about our crush on Justin Timberlake. Just kidding…I don’t do that….often. But seriously, write your thoughts. Have you ever gone on a rant and then immediately felt better? Me too. The problem is, I often wished I could take back those words. The great thing about journaling is that your thoughts are kept private, and you can even look back in the near future to find possible room for improvement. It’s free therapy for those of us who spent our shrink money on pizza and beer.
7. Watch What You Do Online
As mature as we may think we are, others don’t always see us that way. Always prove them wrong. Have all the fun you want, but leave no trace. Be conservative about what you say online and stay away from club pictures. Don’t give anyone a reason to underestimate you professionally.
8. Be A Renaissance Woman
Read books, watch tutorials, seek knowledge in any way possible. Know a little bit about everything. Make sure you can hold a conversation and know where to turn when you are confused. It helps you in every aspect of your life to be able to hold a conversation. It also keeps you away from awkward situations or issues with people trying to take advantage of you. Here’s a tip…whenever someone brings up a topic you are unfamiliar with, write it down (this girl and her lists…) and go home and do a bit of research. Everyone will take you more seriously and you will learn about topics you never even thought would interest you.
9. Do It Yourself
Learn to change your oil, cook and make things by hand. It will save you a tremendous amount of money and it will make you self-sufficient. I can’t tell you how many times my car has broken down and i’ve been able to get it back up and running without seeking the help of some creep standing on the street. Pinterest is amazing, btw.
10. Do What You Want, But Hurt No One
So Cliche, right? But this is my rule when a friend asks me for advice on a complicated issue. Is this what you really want? Are you hurting anyone (this includes yourself) in the process? Ask yourself these questions. Put things into perspective and it will help you make better decisions while still allowing yourself to experience what it is you want.
Now go on…make mistakes. Live life to the fullest, but do so intelligently. Fall down and get back up. [insert 50 more cliche’s here]…
❤